For Women Who Can't Say No:
Stop People-Pleasing and Recover the Years Lost to Self-Abandonment

Ongoing support for women recovering from codependency, chronic self-sacrifice, and the exhaustion of always putting everyone else first

I help women 35-50 who can't say no stop abandoning themselves to keep others comfortable. Former Apple engineer, PhD in Philosophy (UC Santa Cruz), founded Conscious Integrity after my own bankruptcy and rebuild in 2025. If you've spent years in therapy, read all the self-help books, and still find yourself saying yes when you mean no, exhausted from chronic people-pleasing, you're in the right place.

Over 100+ Success Stories

...Sandra brings a critically necessary, thoughtful, and integrative approach to psychedelic ethics. Her teachings both inspire and provoke important discussions on what it means to hold a safe and responsible container for individual and group integration...

Amanda Argot Efthimiou

Co-Founder, Recíproco Method

...Sandra is a real gem of a person, teacher, mentor, and collaborator. Every time I connect with Sandra, I am enriched by it in many ways. She’s highly intelligent with a heart to match and a fierce spirit to light all of that up towards genuine care and purpose...

Pascal Tremblay

CEO & Co-Founder, Nectara  

...Sandra has a unique set of skills and abilities, borne out of many years of experience at the intersection of academic bioethics, underground psychedelic communities, and emerging legal psychedelic settings. She excels at facilitating difficult but important discussions...

Sam Douglas, PhD.

Founder, Psychedelic overground

...Working alongside Sandra has been an enriching experience, filled with deep insights and profound healing. Her dedication to ethical practice and holistic well-being shines through in every interaction, making her an indispensable asset in the psychedelic therapy field...

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Laurie Smith

Psychedelic Artist

...As compassionate as she is wise, I found her to be a welcome breath of fresh air within the psychedelic space, a supportive teacher and guide for those within her sphere.  An exceptional individual who deeply values community support and growth...

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Elisabeth A. Rose

Founder, Sage & Saints

...Sandra brings a critically necessary, thoughtful, and integrative approach to psychedelic ethics. Her teachings both inspire and provoke important discussions on what it means to hold a safe and responsible container for individual and group integration...

Amanda Argot Efthimiou

Co-Founder, Recíproco Method

...Sandra is a real gem of a person, teacher, mentor, and collaborator. Every time I connect with Sandra, I am enriched by it in many ways. She’s highly intelligent with a heart to match and a fierce spirit to light all of that up towards genuine care and purpose...

Pascal Tremblay

CEO & Co-Founder, Nectara  

...Sandra has a unique set of skills and abilities, borne out of many years of experience at the intersection of academic bioethics, underground psychedelic communities, and emerging legal psychedelic settings. She excels at facilitating difficult but important discussions...

Sam Douglas, PhD.

Founder, Psychedelic overground

...Working alongside Sandra has been an enriching experience, filled with deep insights and profound healing. Her dedication to ethical practice and holistic well-being shines through in every interaction, making her an indispensable asset in the psychedelic therapy field...

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Laurie Smith

Psychedelic Artist

...As compassionate as she is wise, I found her to be a welcome breath of fresh air within the psychedelic space, a supportive teacher and guide for those within her sphere.  An exceptional individual who deeply values community support and growth...

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Elisabeth A. Rose

Founder, Sage & Saints

...Sandra brings a critically necessary, thoughtful, and integrative approach to psychedelic ethics. Her teachings both inspire and provoke important discussions on what it means to hold a safe and responsible container for individual and group integration...

Amanda Argot Efthimiou

Co-Founder, Recíproco Method

...Sandra is a real gem of a person, teacher, mentor, and collaborator. Every time I connect with Sandra, I am enriched by it in many ways. She’s highly intelligent with a heart to match and a fierce spirit to light all of that up towards genuine care and purpose...

Pascal Tremblay

CEO & Co-Founder, Nectara  

...Sandra has a unique set of skills and abilities, borne out of many years of experience at the intersection of academic bioethics, underground psychedelic communities, and emerging legal psychedelic settings. She excels at facilitating difficult but important discussions...

Sam Douglas, PhD.

Founder, Psychedelic overground

...Working alongside Sandra has been an enriching experience, filled with deep insights and profound healing. Her dedication to ethical practice and holistic well-being shines through in every interaction, making her an indispensable asset in the psychedelic therapy field...

Headshot: Laurie

Laurie Smith

Psychedelic Artist

...As compassionate as she is wise, I found her to be a welcome breath of fresh air within the psychedelic space, a supportive teacher and guide for those within her sphere.  An exceptional individual who deeply values community support and growth...

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Elisabeth A. Rose

Founder, Sage & Saints

Success stories

Supported more than 100+ facilitators

...Sandra brings a critically necessary, thoughtful, and integrative approach to psychedelic ethics. Her teachings both inspire and provoke important discussions on what it means to hold a safe and responsible container for individual and group integration...

Amanda Argot Efthimiou

Co-Founder, Recíproco Method

...Sandra is a real gem of a person, teacher, mentor, and collaborator. Every time I connect with Sandra, I am enriched by it in many ways. She’s highly intelligent with a heart to match and a fierce spirit to light all of that up towards genuine care and purpose...

Pascal Tremblay

Nectara CEO & Co-Founder

...Sandra has a unique set of skills and abilities, borne out of many years of experience at the intersection of academic bioethics, underground psychedelic communities, and emerging legal psychedelic settings...

Sam Douglas, PhD.

Founder, Psychedelic Overground

...Working alongside Sandra has been an enriching experience, filled with deep insights and profound healing. Her dedication to ethical practice and holistic well-being shines through in every interaction, making her an indispensable asset in the psychedelic therapy field...

Headshot: Laurie

Laurie Smith

Psychedelic Artist

...As compassionate as she is wise, I found her to be a welcome breath of fresh air within the psychedelic space, a supportive teacher and guide for those within her sphere.  An exceptional individual who deeply values community support and growth...

Headshot: Elisabeth

Elisabeth A. Rose

Founder, Sage & Saints

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...The moment I spoke with Sandra for the first time I realized this was a soul who was truly genuine in her compassion for people. Since then our relationship has transformed into a space of creation. In building EPIC together I have witnessed Sandra as a truly collaborative individual with a tremendous capacity to teach in a way that empowers those around her. She is a community leader, builder and a beacon in the psychedelic space. Her desire to support and authentic care is unparalleled...

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